Kelly Rowland Gets SECRETLY MARRIED . . . We Got ALL THE DETAILS . . . Plus Pics Of Her HUSBAND And The RINGS!!!

 To all you men secretly hoping that you'd get with Kelly Rowland . . . you're dreams are OFFICIALLY DASHED!!! Kelly Rowland and her longtime boyfriend/manager Tim Witherspoon got SECRETLY MARRIED earlier this year.

The insider, who is VERY close with Kelly's new hubby, confirmed this to us - so it's NOT RUMOR. The insider explained, "Kelly and Tim have been together for years, and decided to get married." She added, "Kelly wants to keep her sexy singer image alive, so she's keeping everything a secret. Most people didn't even know she had a boyfriend."

There had been all kinds of rumors about Kelly dating OTHER celebs: including Jamie Foxx and Pusha T. But it was all a SMOKESCREEN . . . to hide Kelly's MARRIAGE!!!

Congrats are in order for Kelly. It appears that instead of rings the couple decided to get matching tattoos on their wedding fingers. CUTE!!